Supporting Girls as They Discover Who They Are
The journey of self-discovery is sacred.
It’s during childhood and especially adolescence that girls explore not just their passions and dreams, but also their identities, boundaries, and values — shaping who they are and how they show up in the world.
Today, supporting girls means embracing the full spectrum of who they are becoming, including their exploration of gender identity, personal boundaries, and self-expression. But we don’t often seen this taught in school or even home and we get it, as adults we want our vision and often forget that our children’s lives, while influenced by the experiences we give them are in the end….theirs to discover.
Identity Development: A Natural (and Necessary) Journey
Self-discovery is a critical part of growing up.
According to research published by the American Psychological Association (APA), adolescence is a key period for developing a sense of identity — including understanding gender roles, questioning societal expectations, and forming a stable sense of self.
(Source: APA, Developing Adolescents: A Reference for Professionals, 2002)
During this time, girls (and those who identify with the girl experience) are:
Exploring gender identity and gender expression
Testing boundaries and seeking independence
Learning to advocate for their physical and emotional boundaries
Defining their values and beliefs
Our role isn’t to define who they should be — it’s to create spaces where they can explore safely, authentically, and without judgment.
Supporting Gender Identity Exploration
Gender identity — a person’s internal sense of being female, male, both, neither, or somewhere along the gender spectrum — often becomes more consciously explored during adolescence.
According to a 2022 survey from the Trevor Project, about 25% of LGBTQ+ youth identify as nonbinary or gender-expansive.
(Source: The Trevor Project, 2022 National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health)
Affirmation matters. Research consistently shows that when young people are affirmed in their gender identity and expression, they experience:
Lower rates of depression and anxiety
Improved self-esteem
Stronger resilience and mental health outcomes
(Source: Journal of Adolescent Health, 2021)
At Magical Rebel, we affirm every girl — cisgender, transgender, or nonbinary — on their journey of self-discovery.
Everyone deserves to be celebrated for who they know themselves to be.
Teaching Healthy Boundaries
Discovering identity also means discovering boundaries.
Girls need skills to set, communicate, and enforce boundaries — from emotional limits in friendships to physical autonomy and consent.
According to the National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC), early education around personal boundaries leads to:
Stronger interpersonal relationships
Reduced vulnerability to abuse
Greater self-respect and respect for others' boundaries
(Source: NSVRC, Preventing Child Sexual Abuse: Boundaries and Consent Education)
In our programs, girls practice:
Saying “no” with confidence
Recognizing when their boundaries are being crossed
Respecting others' limits
Trusting their intuition
Creating safe, affirming spaces for self-exploration
Respecting and uplifting every girl's gender identity and expression
Teaching boundary-setting as a vital leadership skill
Celebrating individuality and authenticity
These are lifelong skills for leadership, wellness, and empowerment.
Because discovering who you are — and standing proudly in that truth — is the ultimate act of rebellion against a world that tries to limit you.
We don’t just want girls to find themselves. We want them to fall in love with who they are becoming.
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